Thursday, December 15, 2005

In the time of Pride and Predjudice?


I started a new personal project this week. The project still needs a name, but it has a goal. I want to know and read one of each of my friends' most favorite books.

My first phase is Margaret's book, Pride and Predjudice. Normally, I don't care for "period" books, but I decided to follow my own project rules and give it a try. So far, I'm on page 73 and I find the book to be facinating. I love the subtle dialogue that expresses and exposes social norms and desires. The characters all have so many social rules that they must follow.

At one dance, Elizabeth gets snubbed by Mr. Darcy (and everyone knows it.) At a later dance, she refuses to dance with him. She has a rep to protect! In the world of P&P, a guy couldn't ask a girl to dance, even if they've been to several of the same occasions, unless someone else intimate with both parties introduced them.

"What a bore!" I thought, "I'm so glad we don't have to follow social rules like that today!"

Until I went out to a swing dance club last night.

When I got roped into dancing with a robot named Mork, who danced embarrassingly slow to a mambo beat and couldn't give me a twirl if his life depended on it, when an acquainted man-friend left my friend and I as wilting wall flowers for 100 songs even though he is a great dancer, I was thinking about Pride and Predjudice.

How would these events at the swing dance be seen through the lens of P&P?
Probably, I would have know all about robo-mork and been able to turn him down for a dance to spare myself the awkwardness.

And the man friend? The social slight would not have gone unnoticed. All the society ladies would be talking about what a bad countenance and temperament and manners he had. Well, they would say that to me and my friend until we left the room.

Then, when talking to him, those bitches would talk about my friend and I in the same way.

4 comments:

  1. Anonymous10:24 AM

    What other books are on the list?

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  2. Anonymous11:23 AM

    what a great idea. i have a whole pile of books that i want to read. perhaps we could start a blog book club!

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  3. Anonymous6:58 PM

    I am so excited that you're reading my favorite book. I loved your comparison to society today. When you finish reading the book you might want to watch the movie that most closely represents the book: the BBC version (now on DVD with deleted scenes included - be still my beating heart!). AJ

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  4. Anonymous11:46 AM

    Is Jsuny the man friend referenced in the post? I'm not sure how this plays out in today's world, but if Mr. Darcy told Elizabeth to get over herself, I doubt he would get the opportunity to make it up next week. It would take many a fortnight, maybe never, for Mr. Darcy to recover from the snub and the "get over yourself" in the world of P&P.

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